Hiiii, I hope you’re all doing great 🙂
So as a human, regardless of age, there is always room for self improvement and this will require you to self reflect on who you are right now and who you will want to eventually become. My advice can only aid you so far, you’ll need to complete this journey by yourself x
There must be something that you’re not happy with about yourself, right? And I’m not talking about if you want to be skinnier, prettier, or something to do with your appearance. I’m talking about your personality, your temper, your attitude, and what makes you who you are. I want you to think really carefully about what other people have told you about yourself that you didn’t like but deep down you knew that they were right. I want you to take that into consideration on top of what you have already pointed out about yourself. Then I want you to write it down and always refer back to it because you need to be reminded that these are your goals and you want to reverse your bad habits and become the best version of yourself on Earth while you still breathe.
Every single day I want you to remind yourself of your goals and focus solely on these goals as you go about your day. Maybe change your mindset or perspectives on how you see things. Make little changes every day and eventually these will become great things one day, just you wait and see.
Of course always plan some kind of reward at the end when you have reached your goals, you have to be motivated somehow. Maybe going travelling to a place you’ve always wanted and rightfully deserved (I would advise that you save a lot of money, you know for the 5 star luxury hotels :))
I mean, being a better person is something everyone wants to achieve because then people will be more inclined to be friends with you, be happier, and in the future you will be pleased with yourself more and can die without any regrets.
Oh and another piece of advice there’s always things that you should keep private because you can’t ever trust anyone because people will screw you over all the time, all you really need is 2-3 really close friends but if you want to be a better person, you do it for yourself.
I hope you will become very successful!!
Lots of love and of course good luck